Differences Between Eastern and Western Styles of Caring For Children

Eastern and western styles of caring for children are specifically different. In eastern, the style of caring for children applies authoritarian style. The discipline and perseverance are the ways of survival. In China, for example, many children do not want to depend to other people and they always try to increase their ability. They will not try to embarrass their family. By using this style, we can see that many Chinese young generations are success. However, this style makes children have no high emotion to live.

In western, by contrast, it is different from eastern one. For example, Americans are more permissive and more care for their children's psychology factors. This way surely makes children be able to face the life as they want. By applying this style, many American young generations have high emotion to live. However, it can make the children become arrogant and shoot the works. As a result, both of this styles are good, but each of them has plus and minus factors.

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Let Your Eyes Say!

Most of us believe that love comes firstly from eyes. Below are the ways to express the love by using eyes. Firstly, you can express love by keeping your eyes contact to one you love. You have to keep looking at one’s eyes you love for a few seconds. While you are looking at her eyes, you can give her a little sweet smile as well. This way will surely give her impression at the first time. However, do not look at her eyes too much. Looking at her eyes too much might cause her get shy. If she gets shy and her face becomes a bit red, it might make her run away from you. On the other hand, your mission will be failed. Afterward, you also can express your love by winking your eyes. Winking means that you have to close one of your eyes for a short time. It is usually used by everyone who has been closing to one they love. Because of that, you are able to use this way when you have convinced that she loves you too. It seems that this way will lead you to make her be yours. Finally, you have successfully made her love you and your eyes are the heroes.

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Sex Before Marriage

Sex before marriage in Indonesia can be caused by western culture that has been influencing so many information media in Indonesia. It is usually found in western movies, porn magazines and internet. Many teenagers in Indonesia follow anything they watch from western movies. They freely watch some scenes showing immoral actions in the movies without any filter. In addition, western porn magazines take a lot of contribution of this case. They can buy some porn magazines at the stores freely. Afterward, they look at some pictures there and share it proudly to their friends. They might not think whether it is something good or bad. They only think that anything from western is good and they also think that it is the modern life style they should follow. If they do not follow, they will be mocked by their friends. Moreover, sex before marriage is also a result of misapplying of internet usage. As we know, many teenagers in Indonesia use internet as a new technology and a new information tool. However, this new technology is carelessly misapplied by them by watching and downloading porn videos, reading some adult stories about sex, or seeing some immoral pictures. They can watch and download porn videos in their homes without any prohibition and monitoring from their parents. Then, they mistakenly apply anything they watch from the videos to their couples. As a result, nowadays sex before marriage does not sound strange anymore in Indonesia.

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