Can You Hypnotize?

What did you feel after seeing the hypnotic pattern beside? Are you feeling dizzy? If so, that dizzy feeling could lead you to being hypnotized if you take a long time seeing that. Then you will become unconscious. And it is called hypnosis process. Do you know what hypnosis is? I assume you all have known what hypnosis is. Is that right?

Now I would like to show you how to hypnotize someone. Below is one technique to hypnotize someone I saw and concluded from my lecturer’s hypnosis appearance. First, make it sure that someone you are going to hypnotize also wants to be hypnotized. Then, you can ask him about his name, his family, his job, his hobby, and you also can talk some platitudes or something unimportant to him directly. This way is usually started by clapping his shoulder when he looks dazed. Next, it is your duty to make him unconscious. As soon as he is unconscious, you can start your hypnosis. Furthermore, the way very often used by my lecturer is to ask someone to think deeper within his subconscious. In addition, you can make him unconscious by asking him to imagine and follow some mysterious situations. Moreover, you can order him to do something weird, like closing his eyes, hold it and try to open it, or holding the hand onto the chair and trying to pick it up again. After he is unconscious, it means that you have successfully hypnotized him. Finally, you can make someone better than before by giving suggestion or motivation when he is being hypnotized.

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Sign Language for Dumb People’s Communication

Dumb people have a special way to communicate. They communicate to others by using sign language. It is a process of exchange of thoughts and ideas where the message is delivered. The ways usually used are by combining hand shapes, movement of the hands, arms and body, also facial expressions to express their thoughts. Sign language can repeat thoughts that have been conveyed verbally. For example, a child who is invited to a recreation place will jump up and down to express his happiness. Furthermore, it also can replace the verbal symbol. For example, in Indonesia, without saying a word, if someone shakes his head, it is known as a sign of disagreement, sadness, or disbelief of something. 

Sign language is fully arranged by rules. However, there is no international sign language are successfully applied. Sign language is unique in its kind in any country. In addition, sign language may be different in countries speaking the same language. For example, the United States and Britain despite having the same written language, but both of them have overall differences (American Sign Language and British Sign Language). The reverse is also true. There are countries having difference written language (e.g. English and Spanish), but use the same sign language. As a result, by using this language, the dumb people still can communicate to others although they cannot speak and hear.

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The Esquimaux Maiden’s Romance

The Esquimaux Maiden’s Romance is one of the best short stories of Mark Twain criticizing social discrimination. Twain tries to criticize different treatment in society happened to both of a rich man and a poor man. Twain, as the narrator of the story, tells his experience when he met a girl of Eskimo named Lasca, in Artic Circle. The twenty years-old girl, told anything of her life, such as her life in Artic Circle and her romance. She was the daily friend of Twain in a week. More he knew about the girl, more he liked her. Although there are some issues of discrimination in the story, here this essay will focus on the different treatment happened to both of the rich and the poor man.

The first main discussion of this essay is when Lasca told about the special treatment that people in her tribe give to Lasca’s father. Lasca explained that her father was a rich man in his tribe at the time. As a rich man, people gave prime attention to him. Her father had twenty two fish-hooks, the greatest quantities in the tribe. When he was poor, people disrespected to him. However, when he became rich, his wealth made many his neighboring tribesmen cringing and obsequious to him. “And his wealth makes everybody cringing and obsequious to him.’ (paragraph 103, line 12). Moreover, her status as a daughter of a millionaire did not make her life happy.

‘It pains me to see neighbouring tribesmen stare as they pass by, and overhear them say, reverently, one to another, "There--that is she--the millionaire's daughter!" And sometimes they say sorrowfully, "She is rolling in fish-hooks, and I--I have nothing." It breaks my heart.’ (paragraph 103, line 3).

The neighboring tribesmen respected to her family only because of his father’s wealth, and they only see Lasca as a daughter of a rich man, not Lasca as an ordinary girl. Therefore, she did not clearly see whether the admiration showed by them is really pure from their hearts or not.

Another social discrimination happened in the story is the unfair treatment to a poor man named Kalula. Kalula, as a stranger from another tribe, came and stayed in the Lasca’s tribe. He suddenly loved Lasca just after meeting her. Lasca’s father, a haughty man, felt unrespect to Kalula. He considered Kalula as a poor man who did not deserve to love his daughter, Lasca. Kalula, who suddenly loved Lasca, did not know that Lasca’s father is a rich man. Kalula then was amazed by twenty two Lasca’s father fish-hooks. One night, he could not sleep for thinking for the beautiful hooks. He kissed and fondled them, but he did not steal them.

‘”It was I. I could not sleep for thinking of the beautiful hooks. I went there and kissed them and fondled them, to appease my spirit and drown it in a harmless joy, then I put them back. I may have dropped one, but I stole none."’ (paragraph 146, line 1).

Lasca’s father woke up in the morning and realized that there was one hook lost. Without any investigation, Lasca’s father immediately accused Kalula as the thief. ‘"Up, everybody, and seize the stranger!"’ (paragraph 123, line 5). Afterward, Kalula was brought to court, and the judge convicted that he was wrong, and he was taken far out to sea and was set on an iceberg was drifting southward. Kalula was punished by something he never did. An unfair treatment he accepted just because he was only a poor man.

In brief, this story criticizes the dissimilar social treatment happened in both of millionaire and poor man. First, people sometimes respect to the millionaire just because of his wealth. Furthermore, they are cringing and obsequious to him. Besides, people always disrespect to the poor man. People are regularly suspicious with him. When he did something wrong, he is suddenly accused and punished. Those both are social discrimination usually happened in society. The message sent by the story is actually not to respect to someone only because of his wealth, and not to accuse someone without knowing what real happened.

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- The Poor Relation's Story

- Twelfth Night

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Twelfth Night

Twelfth Night is a comedy genre short story beautifully written by William Shakespeare. It tells about love and disguise of a girl named Viola. The story begins when Viola and Sebastian, twin brother and sister who were in a shipwreck of a long ship journey. It is stated in paragraph 1, line 5, “for they were shipwrecked on the coast of Illyria, as they were making a sea-voyage together.” Viola then taught that her brother was dead, and she was saved and arrived in a strange country named Illyria which is governed by Orsino. In this foreign country, which was far away from her home, Viola found her love, which would be a triangle love, and she also disguised as a man named Cesario. Hence, this essay will obviously tell about the Viola’s love and her disguise as a man.

Orsino, the Duke of Illyria, was in love with Olivia, a fair Lady who actually rejected his love. Olivia was a daughter of a count who died twelve months ago. Her father left her to her brother protection, but her brother was also dead in a short time after her father’s death. Viola heard about the Lady from the captain of the ship, and she wanted to serve the Lady. However, the Lady would not accept anyone to come to her house since her brother’s death. Viola then had another project in her mind that she wanted to disguise as a man named Cesario, which the appearance was just like her brother Sebastian, in order to serve the Duke, Orsino. “Then Viola formed another project in her mind, which was, in a man’s habit, to serve the Duke Orsino as a page.” (paragraph 6; line 6).

She then asked the captain to furnish her the apparel which had the same fashion and color that Sebastian used to wear. Furthermore, she was entrusted by the Duke to help him in his effort to court the Lady. He told all the secrets of his heart to the disguised girl as she showed her faithfulness to him. When Cesario came to Olivia’s house, she said that she could not love him. It is stated in paragraph 36; line 1, “I cannot love him.” She knew that the Duke’s was virtuous, but she could not love him. Otherwise, she suddenly had an impression of young Cesario, as stated “that she resolved to court the love of young Cesario” (paragraph 41 ; line 10).

On another place, Sebastian was still alive as he was saved by a sea-captain of another ship named Antonio. Sebastian curiously wanted to visit the Orsino’s palace. Afterward, Antonio brought him to Illyria although he knew that there were many of his enemies. Finally, they had landed to Illyria. Since Sebastian appearance was just the same with Cesario, he then was asked by Olivia to get married. She did not know that Cesario she wanted to marry was Sebastian. Subsequently, Sebastian married with Olivia, whom considered him as Cesario, as revealed in paragraph 64; line 10 “for another Cesario entered, and addressed Olivia as his wife. This new Cesario was Sebastian, the real husband of Olivia.”

On another side, Orsino, who was disappointed to Olivia’s marriage with Sebastian, had great attention to Viola as she charmingly changed into a fair lady from her disguise as Cesario. He viewed her very beautiful woman in a woman’s attire. After that, he revealed that he wanted to make Viola his wife as she had said she loved him many times and was really faithful of being a page. It can be seen in paragraph 66; line 11, “he resolved to make Viola his wife” and in paragraph 67 ; line 4, “you shall now be your master’s mistress, and Orsino’s true duchess.” Finally, Viola married with Orsino, and Sebastian married with Olivia on the same day.

To make it brief, this beautiful short story attractively told about Viola and Sebastian, twin brother and sister who got an accident as their ship was sunk at sea. However, it brought them into a fortune. He and she arrived in a foreign country by different time. Viola, who arrived first, was falling in love with Orsino, the Duke of the foreign country, Illyria. Furthermore, Viola disguised as a man named Cesario who later was a page of Orsino to help him express his love to a fair Lady named Olivia. Olivia then fell in love with Cesario, which was actually Sebastian who was rescued of the accident by Antonio. Olivia and Sebastian then got married, and Orsino also married Viola as he was totally interested in her because her beauty and faithfulness. As a final point, the fortune of them is that Viola was a princess of the Duke Orsino, and Sebastian was a husband of the fair Lady Olivia.

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The Poor Relation's Story

This time I will post some of my assignments from Introduction to Literature subject when I was in 5th semester as I think it's better to be published instead of being useless only dropped in my drive. They are narrative essays of summary of some short stories made by some expert writers like Charles Dickens, William Shakespeare, and Mark Twain. And the first essay is about The Poor Relation's Story by Charles Dickens. Check this out!

The Poor Relation's Story

(A Summary)

The Poor Relation’s Story is one of the greatest short stories of Charles Dickens conveying about a poor relation who dreamed of his fantasy life. The story begins when a family gathered in an event of Christmas. It is clearly stated in the story that the name of the poor relation is Michael. According to his first confession, he was a poor bachelor. It is stated in paragraph 4; line 12 that “I am at present a bachelor of between fifty-nine and sixty years of age”. However, in the middle of the story, he also confessed that what he told about his life previously is wrong, “Now, it is a remarkable circumstance which forms the aim and purpose of my story, that this is all wrong. This is not my life, and these are not my habits.” (paragraph 12; line 2). The only main question left is which life that truly he went through. Therefore, this essay will evidently tell the fantasy life, which is the “supposed life” the poor relation clearly described.

In his fantasy life, he confessed that he was residing in a castle, marrying a pretty girl, and having children and grandchildren. In this life he did not fail in business. John Spatter, who was a clerk in his business, did not dupe him, and Michael took him into a partnership. “It was when I first took John Spatter (who had been my clerk) into partnership, and when I was still a young man of not more than five- and-twenty.” (paragraph 13; line 1). Moreover, it is also told that he married a beautiful girl whom he had loved for a long time. The name of the girl was Christiana. She had a widowed mother whom Michael rather mistrusted. Christiana did not marry a rich man, but chose Michael, “Christiana accepted me with her mother's consent, and I was rendered very happy indeed.” (paragraph 14; line 1). From his marriage with Christiana, they were blessed with children. Additionally, their eldest daughter married the eldest son of John Spatter. They have grandchildren. One of them is just like Little Frank, it is described as follow:

That was the beginning of the residence I have spoken of; the Castle we have ever since inhabited together, dates from that time. All our children have been born in it. Our first child--now married--was a little girl, whom we called Christiana. Her son is so like Little Frank, that I hardly know which is which. (paragraph 40; line 2).

The only thing unchanged is that he did not find any good relationship with his uncle, Chill. The Little Frank, who was the child of his first cousin, is also still little. He was a diffident boy whom the poor relation often took home to the Castle, “I often take Little Frank home there. He is very welcome to my grandchildren, and they play together.” (paragraph 66; line 2). However, in the end of the story, he explained that it was his imagination. To finish his story, still at near place of the Christmas fire, he clearly said that his castle is only in the air, "Yes. My Castle," said the poor relation, shaking his head as he still looked at the fire, "is in the Air. John our esteemed host suggests its situation accurately. My Castle is in the Air! I have done.” (paragraph 68; line 1). In fact, his life in a castle and his marriage with Christiana was only his fantasy life, not his real life. His actual life is what he already mentioned earlier in the story that he was a bachelor living in lodging, and he is a solitary man with a quarterly income who failed in business and love.

The reason why he dreamed of the fantasy life is to amuse himself and to make his life happy. He did not want to feel too agonized. In addition, he also did not want the misery of his life made his respected family unhappy. He did not want they get unhappiness in thinking of him. It did not mean that he is an escapist because he just wanted to forget his miserable life and tried to get happiness at least in a gathering event of Christmas, when he and his respected family were assembled. Michael also perhaps wished that it will be an inspiring story that his respected family could take a note. The message of his fantasy story might that people should not have to worry of his life just because they are underprivileged and deprived.

To put it briefly, this beautiful short story conveyed the fantasy life of a poor relation that he described to his family members. He told that he was living in a castle, marrying a pretty woman, and having children and grandchildren. Furthermore, he also revealed that John Spatter was his clerk and he took him as a partner. This supposed life was completely different form his actual life. By telling his fantasy life, he confidently hoped that it will entertain him and his respected family, and also made his life happy. He wanted to show that he was not an escapist, but a man who had an imagination in enjoying his distressed life.

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Fenomena 'Keep Smile'

Apa yang Anda fikirkan ketika ada seorang pria joget-joget gak jelas dengan iringan lagu yang salah satu liriknya berbunyi “asik asik joss”? Apa juga yang Anda fikirkan ketika acara tersebut ditayangkan hampir tiap malam di sebuah stasiun TV swasta di Indonesia? Pastinya Anda gumoh dan bosan bukan? Saya juga. Tapi ada satu hal yang saya dapat ambil dari sudut pandang yang berbeda darinya…

Bukan anak saya

Siapa yang tidak kenal Goyang ala Caisar atau Caesar atau Kaisar atau siapalah namanya itu, yang sedang menjadi sebuah fenomena belakangan ini? Sudah pasti sebagian Anda mengetahuinya. Mungkin hanya saya yang baru tau hal tersebut sebulan terakhir ini karena ketika acara ini ditayangkan sekiar bulan puasa yang lalu, saya gak pernah menontonnya karena memang gak pernah nyetel TV pas sahur -_-

Salah satu yang saya ingat dari pria yang bernama Caisar tersebut adalah ia selalu mengatakan “Keep Smile” sebelum memulai jogetnya. So, apa kira-kira korelasi antara goyang ala Caisar tersebut dengan tulisan ini? Saya sebetulnya ingin menggaris bawahi kata Keep Smile tersebut, yang terjemahan kasar salam Bahasa Indonesianya adalah “tetaplah tersenyum.” Di luar goyangan enerjiknya yang absurd itu, Caisar (dengan perkataan Keep Smile-nya) mampu -setidaknya- menyadarkan saya bahwa di dalam situasi sesulit apapun dalam hidup ini, kita harus tetap tersenyum.

Contohnya ketika Anda menyukai seorang wanita namun cinta Anda ditolak mentah-mentah, tersenyumlah. Ketika tanggal tua, gajian belum turun tapi harus bayar ini itu, tersenyumlah. Ketika tugas sekolah/kuliah menumpuk seperti gunung Krakatau yang terus bertambah tinggi setiap tahunnya, tersenyumlah. Ketika sudah melamar pekerjaan ke sana kemari tapi belum juga diterima, tersenyumlah. Ketika suami atau istri Anda, atau mungkin pacar Anda marah-marah gak jelas dan Anda pun gak tau apa salah Anda, tersenyumlah. Ketika Anda harus menyelesaikan revisi skripsi dalam jangka waktu tertentu, atau ancamannya Anda akan sidang ulang, ter… (eh nanti dulu, senyum gak ya, masalahnya saya lagi ngalamin nih… hiks).

Pokoknya sesuatu apapun itu yang membuat Anda terhalang, tersenyumlah dan buatlah langkah baru. Nikmati hidup just the way it is. Tersenyumlah, layaknya seorang anak kecil yang selalu tersenyum karena tak pusing memikirkan banyak masalah. Let it flow ajalah. Tapi maksud 'tersenyum' di sini tidak melulu bahwa kita harus selalu senyum ketika masalah datang, nanti disangka orang stress. Haha. Maksudnya anggaplah masalah itu sebagai bumbu-bumbu dalam kehidupan, bukan sebagai duri yang harus selalu disesalkan.

Anak tetangga, namanya Ola

So everyone, keep smile :) *kemudian joget*
#Absurd

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